Monday 30 November 2015

Parenting Tips for Working Moms:

For effective time management here are a few parenting tips:

1.   Set strict weekday and weekend bed times. This means also setting a hard stop to play time so kids can have ample time to clean up their play areas, take a shower and have dinner. Doing this sets expectations for kids and establishes a nighttime schedule.

There is a two-prong benefit to this. On one hand you are providing much needed structure for the kids that they will eventually adopt as their own and on the other hand it helps you as a working mom better manage your nighttime, which to most moms is the only free time you have.

2.   Another tip is to: Eliminate or reduce mealtime negotiations. By this I mean not to allow kids to negotiate what they eat at mealtime. Kids are neither dietitians nor nutritionists and as a result they do not know what’s best for them, we do.

As time management goes this allows you to plan meals with less fear that your kids will reject it. This eliminates or reduces the instances where you have to scramble to find an alternative meal.
I suggest if there is to be any negotiation, it should be done ahead of time and should only be restricted to sides and not the main course.

3.   Another nifty tool is an Events calendar. Kids usually have a full agenda that includes school events, sporting events, birthday parties and other miscellaneous activities. Planning ahead helps both to be prepared and reduce your own anxieties.

Planning helps to identify scheduling conflicts, preparation activities like shopping for birthday gifts or new swimwear for a swim meet and milestone events like final exams and graduation ceremonies.


These tips are great at establishing the structure all experts agree kids need and to aid in keeping Mommies stress levels at a minimum.

If this is helpful to you or you wish to share some of your parenting tips please drop a line in the comment box. 

3 comments:

  1. there should be no negotiations when it comes to meals as long as the food is nutritious, give it to them. long ago we had to eat whatever was put in front of us, you either eat it or starve.

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  2. Monica. You are so right about back in the days. We have become short order cooks to our children now and this results in a lot of frustration and waste.

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